Showing posts with label commitment. Show all posts
Showing posts with label commitment. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Broken promise, continued...

Click on the below article link for background information to this blog post:

Examiner article

The article might sound a bit harsh but I really have a hard time tolerating these type of people. When you are in the process of discovering that their words only reflect emptiness, it really doesn't feel good. Their lack of effort and follow through really results in a form of betrayal and it and isn't a pleasant experience.

I work very hard to try to meet my commitments. Sometimes this means I have to push myself when I'm not feeling up to it or maybe I have to find my way through an uncomfortable situation when saying, sorry, I can't to someone. I believe if you tell this person no, in the long run, they would prefer to hear it as apposed to a "no show"!

What type of person really bothers you? Share your feelings with me; they might inspire a future article!

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Cheating doesn't benefit anyone, continued...

Click on the below link for background information to this blog post:

Examiner

Okay, I have no tolerance for an adult who cheats. If you are cheating, GROW UP and consider the harm you are promoting!!! If you're unhappy in your relationship, END IT! It is the right thing to do.

For most of my career I was hit on by married men. I gave them all the same response, "Take the attention you're giving me and go home and focus it towards your wife where it belongs."

I have very little faith in both men and women considering I've known both who have actively cheated. I'm not protesting to be perfect as I too, in my teen years, didn't take commitment seriously but I did grow up. I respect the person I'm devoted to and I respect myself enough to maintain my commitment. What are your thoughts about this topic? Who is more unfaithful, men or women?