The hand you are dealt, continued...

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I love when Oprah offers her forum to a minister in Lifeclass. And, I love the fact that Pastor Rick Warren is preaching about overcoming life circumstances. It seems like life forces a lot of circumstances on us, physically, spiritually and emotionally but we also receive a lot of gifts that offer balance. Our skills and talents might get shadowed by circumstances but with a little support, faith and hard work, perseverance is possible.

I believe this whole-heartily. My life is testimony to this. No, I've not fully arrived but I'm enjoying the ride and my work in process is making me a better person one day at a time. I'm proud of this. I'm proud of my commitment to my health, my family and my soul-work. With baby steps, I'm getting there and these cards that I've been dealt have shaped me into the person I am today.

I've grown and matured significantly over the years, more spiritually as I've embraced my forties.

Do you feel stuck in circumstances? What are they? Are you reaching out for help? Or, perhaps this year you've found momentum. Leave me a note.

Here I stand, continued...

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Jillian Bullock continued the interview.

She offered advice, “If a person wants to get their life together and transform from a Victim to a Victor it takes courage to face the mistakes you’ve made and take responsibility for your actions. This is definitely difficult to do, but it’s the first step to begin the process of healing. Next, they must get help from someone who can offer professional advice, a therapist, a pastor, an outreach organization, like AA or NA, if necessary. People shouldn’t be afraid to ask for help. Then, the really hard work begins.

They must work toward transforming negative and self-destructive habits, behaviors, and attitudes into productive, positive and loving ones; stay away from people, places and things that can trigger unwanted thoughts and undesirable behavior or action. Surround yourself with positive, uplifting people, not naysayers and those who try to tear you down or break your spirit.”

Today Jillian is working on obtaining a Ph.D. in Psychology.

You can contact her through her website Jillian Bullock Enterprises – www.jillianbullockenterprises.com.

3 essentials for a balanced life, continued...

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Anytime we embrace something new in our lives, it seems to throw off our momentum. This past week was my first week of school and with only 2 classes added to my routine, I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed. I realize as long as I keep up my sleep, exercise and healthy food intake, I'll be fine but it doesn't change the fact that it takes time to adjust.

The practice of deep breathing is really something that most overlook and, therefore, under appreciate; it really is essential to achieving balance. I discovered this when I took my son to an asthma specialist. The stomach should actually rise and fall as apposed to the chest when you are properly breathing. The diaphragm, when fully utilized, is a God given tool that enables balance.

I am sure that if you're hungry, overly tired, feeling lethargic and your practicing shallow breathing (as most do), you are not in the best shape to handle a high energy day. Prepare yourself appropriately for your daily success. Because, my friend, when you do, you and those around you benefit from your best self and this person can rise above the static and appreciate life for what it really is, a true blessing!

Valuable revelations, continued...

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The book I've been working on for the past year shares a lot of the lessons or treasures I've collected through the hardship I've suffered in life. Bright days are warm and wonderful but darkness does find its way in the forefront and before you know it, you're blinded by the cold, drum circumstances. It is difficult to navigate each and every time but once you're able to get over the initial stock, you gather the strength to stand up and find your way. I have survived:

• Domestic violence (as a child)
• An economically poor upbringing
• Betrayal
• Divorce
• Loss of many loved ones
• Job loss
• Hardship from the unhealthy choices of those in my circle

And, much, much more.

But, each and every hardship that has impacted me, taught me something. Had I not loss my job, I wouldn't have embraced my soul-work (as an artist working to help others). Had I not lived in the sidelines of unhealthy choices of others, I wouldn't have learned from their mistakes. With the loss of my father, I now more fully treasure the time I have with my family. Divorce taught me the wrath of enabling unhealthy behavior. It gifted my independence, which strengthened me. My poor upbringing gave me hard work ethics and appreciation for the value of everything I've achieved. Because I've endured the trenches of domestic violence, as a child, I have a passion to better our communities through my work with Safehouse.

These events have and continue to shape me. It is part of my past and it gifts me a better and bright future. I'm excited to embrace this year whatever high's it gifts and for whatever lessons I will learn because, although difficult, they will make me a better person!

More than 25 years on a spiritual journey, continued...

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Ron Chapman continued the interview.

In his words, “I wish I could announce these as my personal success story. But they are not mine to claim. They are the results of a Power that sometimes flows through me now that the self has been reduced enough to permit it. I am allowed to observe these matters, sometimes with joy, and sometimes with sadness, but always with wonder and curiosity.

A spiritual teacher once taught me that the secret is not in getting what you want, but in wanting what you get. Probably, this is the means to happiness. And probably it is the only path to genuine service to others.”

Ron’s perspective, “While I now reside in Atlanta and regularly retreat to Upstate South Carolina, the world is my home. Seeing True is a core practice. In short, it is the manifestation of the great scriptural motif ‘was blind but now I see.’ When we see, problems can be resolved and inner peace becomes possible.

Magnetic North is another core notion. It proposes that each of us has inner guidance sufficient for all our needs though we may have to find it and learn to navigate it. Hummingbirds are the living metaphor given their capacity to travel unerringly across continents to the same backyard they frequented in previous years.”

His advice, “With all this as my story, what can you do? Do not allow your fears and reluctance to keep you from going forth on your path. As much as we seem to think that someone can point us and guide us, the journey unfolds as every step. In the end, no one can take a step for us and no one can do our inner work.

Faith is not gullibility, it is certainty based on experience … hammered out on the anvil of that experience. Hope is realized when we move ever so hesitantly forward.

And sometimes we will meet our fellow travelers with a glance, a perfectly timed word or a hand extended.”

Ron closed with his contact information, “Find my hand at rccgroup@bigplanet.com.”

Lifespan significance, continued...

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Yesterday I gave my son an 18th birthday party. It is hard to believe he is already 18. I'm so proud of him and his efforts so far and I can't wait to see him move forward as an independent, contributing adult in whatever area he is going to choose. As he has communicated as of late, "I'm undecided." He is college bound but not sure of a long-term goal/career yet.

This made me think of the pressure he is beginning to feel about the decisions that are creeping into his life. What he decides at this time will greatly affect the rest of his life.

Between my boyfriend and I, we have teenagers at the ages of 15, 16, 18, and 19 years old. Each as an individual fighting through whatever life challenge that seems to take priority. I wouldn't want to be a teen again nor would I wish another teen on us. I say this with love! These kids are blessings but it is really a stressful time as they are challenged to become independent. It is a big responsibility to properly mentor these young minds.

As I've shared, I too am college bound again. I enter this new phase in my middle age and this carries its own share of heightened anxiety. It was helpful to read about the physical changes in preparing for this article. I'm intrigued by our psyche and our coping mechanisms as we try to successfully maneuver through lifespan stages. I'm holding my chin high, taking a deep breath and pushing forward! In 2013 I will challenge myself in an educational forum and raise the bar as I journey through my middle ages.

Where are you in lifespan? What are your thoughts about aging? Talk to me, I'm listening.

New year same you, continued...

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I must admit I’m pretty happy to bring closure to 2012. I’m healthy and skinnier (although I still have some work to do here). I’ve met my 66-day work out challenge (my last work out for the challenge was on 12/26/12) although I’ve continued to workout each and every day since.

I’m going into the New Year embracing a lot of positive change. Now that I have daily workouts into my schedule, I’ve made a true lifestyle change. I’m also blending a healthy eating routine that I’m hopeful will turn into a long-term practice and I’m going back to school. My Master’s program at Siena Heights starts 1/7/13.

I’m a bit anxious about getting into the school mode but I know deep within, this is the right track for me. It will be a busy year, but a great one because I’m doing something that supports my soul-work. A counseling degree will enable me to help others, and in the process, help me move my business forward in a new arena. Short-term, I’m anxious but long-term, I know it is necessary and, because of this, I’m excited about the opportunity!

What changes will you embrace this year? Leave me a note and tell me about it!